You're a good bloke don't forget that, and remember it's better to be single if you or her are not ready for it and not in it for the right reasons. I genuinely believe you need to figure out how to be comfortable alone and with yourself first and the rest takes care of itself. Sorry it didn't happen this time mate, but the road to the one who is the best and forever is paved with a lot of wrong choices, a lot of fear and a lot of doubts. But when you get there, no matter how long the journey is, you'll see that it was all worth it.

Take it easy bud,

j-p

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thanks mate.i got a few things to work on,but at least i realise that now.although i still have this craving to be with someone even though i'm not ready.it's all so cliched,but sometimes the cliches are true.

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So true. But, as a wise man once said - we must learn love ourselves before we can love others. I practice every night! ;)

Glad to hear your getting over things okay.

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that is a total cheesey cliche,but it is kinda true.if you can't love yerself how can you expect anyone else to. or were you just talking about masturbation? maybe i should do more to help me love myself.

thanks man :)

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